Living Boldly Between Two Worlds
Living Boldly Between Two Worlds
Business Owner. Speaker. Author. City girl. Island dreamer. Unapologetically me.
I’m Pauline Stockhausen.
Twenty years in marketing. Thousands of businesses. Every industry you can name. Live betweent two countries. New Zealand and Tonga.
I build products that help everyday business owners get on top of their marketing, their admin, and their time. Everything I sell, I have tested in my own business first. If it does not work for me, you will never see it..
Who I Really Am
Who I Really Am
City girl at heart, island dreamer by choice. I convinced my husband to build a house in Tonga before I’d ever set foot there, and that one bold move changed how I think about life and work. I now live between two beautifully contrasting worlds and run my business from both.
At 45, I became a mum again. Between the night sweats, the brain fog, and the friendships that didn’t survive the chapter change, I found a strength I didn’t know I had. That’s the version of ambition I write about, speak about, and teach other business owners to build into their own lives.
Read my fully storyThe Books
Real talk for real people navigating the beautiful mess of building businesses, raising families, and living lives worth writing about.
Chaos, Coffee and Getting Stuff Done
My guide for the ambitiously exhausted. Not for the person who has it all figured out. For the one running on fumes, still showing up, still building.
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How to Build an Online Business
Twenty years of building global campaigns distilled into actionable strategies. Battle-tested wisdom from the trenches of e-commerce, social media, and digital marketing.
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Kids’ Adventure Series (coming soon)
An 8-12 reader adventure series following a Tongan and palangi family moving back to Tonga. A story about two worlds, one family, and the kind of adventures that only happen when you cross between them. Drawn from our own life between Auckland and the islands
Build an AI Brain for your business
Most AI courses are built for tech people. These are built for small business owners. Six industry-specific programmes, plain-English prompts you can use the same day, and a brain you can keep building long after the course ends.
$119. Self-paced. Industry-specific. Zero jargon.
Your Control Room
Your Control Room
Your own personal assistant.
She never forgets. She never sleeps. She knows your bills, your kids’ schedules, your inbox, and where every dollar went. You even get to name her.
Get Your Control Room – $49
One payment. Yours forever. No subscription.
Book Me to Speak
I’ve spoken at Social Media Marketing World, trained audiences on three continents, and my job on stage is simple: give your audience something they can actually use on Monday morning, wrapped in stories they’ll be repeating for months.
1. AI for Small Business Owners
What actually works, what’s hype, and how business owners under $20M revenue can use AI without needing a tech degree.
2. Social Media That Actually Converts
Twenty years of viral campaigns, brand building, and training Fortune 500s. Strategy that drives revenue, not just likes.
3. Building Businesses That Travel
Digital strategies for entrepreneurs who refuse to be tied to one location. From reliable internet on remote islands to scaling agencies across continents.
4. Living Between Two Worlds
How to build the life you actually want whether that’s straddling continents, balancing motherhood and entrepreneurship, or pursuing the impossible with intention and grit.
5. The Ambitiously Tired Truth
Real talk about pursuing big dreams while navigating brain fog, sleep deprivation, menopause, and the chaos of modern life. Practical strategies for getting stuff done anyway.
6. Rewriting the Rules at Any Age
Becoming a mum at 45. Building a house country unseen. Convincing skeptics. Losing friendships. Finding strength. Why age should never be a deterrent to your boldest moves.
One email a week. No fluff.
One email a week. No fluff.
AI prompts I actually use. Business insights from inside thousands of businesses. Stories from between two worlds. Occasional bookish things. Straight to your inbox every Friday morning.
Unsubscribe whenever. No weird funnel. No 47 automated welcome emails.
Let's Connect
Whether you want to grab one of the books, explore an AI Brain course for your business, book me to speak at your next event, or just want to chat about building businesses between continents, I’d love to hear from you.
